The Importance of Labels
You wear labels everyday, in every interaction. These are how you are perceived by individuals and groups. Labels are contextual, the same label can increase your ability to influence in one situation and reduce your ability to influence in others.
In this blog I will explore how understanding your labels and their perception can provide you with insights to increase your influence.
What are labels?
Labels are how you, and others identify you, this blog concentrates on the labels others use to identify you.
Labelling is part of human nature, and we start to label and categorise from an early age. Categorising and creating expectations from this is part of our survival mechanism.
The labelling we use can be obvious physical attributes such as
- Age - this does change, but you can't change that
- Race
- Skin colour
- Height
- Gender
We can also label others from their actions and perceived personality. Some examples of these labels could be
- Aggressive
- Lazy
- Unskilled
- Friendly
- Collaborative
- Education
- Driven
One of the risks about labels, is that one action can create a label, and then that label and related expectations are the lens we view the whole person through.
As an example, if you were waiting in a queue and someone jumps to the front. You may label that person as 'Ignorant or Rude.' If you then saw that person again your interaction may be influenced by how you had previously labelled them as 'Ignorant or Rude'
Labels are contextual
In some organisations being driven has value, wheras in another organisation collaborative may hold more value.
Some leaders value free thinking, others value wisdom and experience (Age)
Therefore, the labels you have will impact your ability to influence, based on the perceived value of that label by an individual or group.
It therefore stands to reason that if you can identify the labels that the individual or organisation you are trying to influence values increases your ability to influence them.
How can I use this?
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What if I don't have the right labels?
The expectation from this label could be wisdom, experience and competency. With this knowledge you can assess yourself against these expectations. If you feel you have the required knowledge, experience and competency, then you need to find ways to demonstrate this.
It could be that you look at influencing the impression of you prior to a first meeting - this could be by providing information to them that demonstrates your knowledge, experience and competency.
You are now demonstrating the expectations they have for the label - thus building their trust and confidence in you; then when you finally meet them, they may be surprised with your age. You can then use this to your advantage, perhaps making a joke about it - thus creating emotional connection.
By taking this approach you are demonstrating the expectation they have with the label. And once that has been established they then see your age; you are now in a much stronger position to influence.
Conclusion
Being aware of the different values that individuals and groups have for different labels, provides you with a clear insight. This enables you to then explore ways of consistently demonstrating these labels and expectations.
The consistency of these demonstrations and highlighting the key labels and expectations builds trust. You are demonstrating that you have what is important for the person or group to make a decision with confidence.
Prioritise
Predictable
Purpose
Motivate
Purpose
Trust
Impact
Observation
Language
Interactions
Anecdotes
Aquire
Partner
Outsource
Overconfidence
Planning
Optimism
Confirmation
Anchoring
Sunk cost
Assests
Time
Reputation
Career
Relationships
Projects
Accept
Accept
The Importance of Consistency
The Role of Trust
Long-Term Benefits
Consistency and trust go hand-in-hand to produce long-lasting benefits for an organisation. A consistent approach to decision-making that aligns with the organisation's objectives creates a foundation on which trust can be built and maintained. This trust, in turn, promotes a culture of openness, encourages constructive feedback, and fosters an environment where employees feel empowered to contribute meaningfully. These aspects contribute to increased morale, higher productivity, and ultimately, organisational success.
Feelings
Initiating dialogue by articulating one's emotions regarding a particular behaviour or situation sets the stage for a personalised connection. Expressing feelings calmly and precisely reflects a level of vulnerability that can significantly reduce defensiveness from the other party.
Behaviour
Impact
Interrupting